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We’ve all seen in movies – if not in reality – how the universe matches two people; how they magically connect on an emotional level, fall hopelessly in love, and live happily ever after.

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I have worked in an organization as a customer support officer and I have to say, it was fun and exhausting all at once. I had the privilege to speak to people from different walks of life, people with different temperaments and requirements and I learnt most of the points I’m about to discuss the hard way. 

Of course there are so many things to do when planning a wedding (especially if you are having a typical Nigerian wedding) and a lot of it entail shopping.

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Marriage does not necessarily have to start with children immediately.

Before having kids, you need to get to understand one another first and be

responsible for each other. 

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The word Bouquet originated from an old French term which means "clump of trees" and was introduced to English by Lady Mary Montague in 1761.

It is your ex's wedding and we know how tough that can be especially if you are still not into a new relationship. Personally, I wouldn't be caught dead at my ex's wedding, his funeral; maybe, but his wedding? no way! Not to worry though, If you have to attend this wedding compulsorily, here are a few Do's and Don'ts for you to consider.

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Talking to your partner can help you find out if you and your significant other are on the same page about moving your relationship forward. It doesn't happen via text, email or any other techy way but with a good old-fashioned face-to-face conversation. You share and bare your feelings, and hopefully he’ll do the same in a positive way. Who knows, he might just pop the queston after thus conversation.

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The first year of marriage can be incredibly hard. Instead of focusing on what frustrates you about your partner, however, bear in mind  that the “quality of your marriage is in direct proportion to how willing you are to look inside yourself and grow emotionally.

Have you been having wild thoughts of your lover cheating recently? Are you getting all worked up because you have doubts as to whether or not he or she is faithful?
Worry no more, read on for five sure signs your partner has interests elsewhere.

Some people are gradually embracing the idea of abstinence and isn't this so lovely? Some people abstain from sexual relations usually before marriage for religious, health or personal reasons.

That phase may be difficult for those who embrace it as a lifestyle change, but it is not impossible. Surrounding yourself with positive energy and engaging in mentally- stimulating practices will help you in this challenging period.